Ipock: A circle of life through cherished keepsakes
Published on 3/28/2008
Written by Ann Ipock
As I get older, I find myself becoming more and more sentimental. One way this shows is I’m starting to search for and collect family pieces — giving them a new life and giving me a sense of happiness.
While recently cooking in Mama’s kitchen, I came upon her old, worn-out metal sifter. With years of use, it showed worn, rough edges and even a little rust. I noticed a little squeak when you turn the handle (though it works fine).
Mama said I could have it and I’m going to place it on top of my kitchen cabinets along with my baskets, bottles and ivy. Just knowing that Mama used that sifter a million times baking lots of goodies (chocolate pound cake being her speciality) touches my heart.
Over the years, I’ve been given many family treasures: Roseville vases and a McCoy cookie jar, even Mary Ipock’s (my late mother-in-law’s) omelet pan.
But one of my favorites is the wooden rolling pin that Mary gave me. It’s hand-carved, heavy and smooth with constant wear from years ago. It belonged to her mother, and Mary used it often to roll out her scrumptious dumplings for chicken and dumplings.
I now visit my parents more often — we relocated to North Carolina to be closer to them a year ago and the drive is only one hour. And as I myself become older, as do they, I find that I enjoy going to their home, plundering and rummaging, looking for rarely used and often forgotten items that have tremendous sentimental value for me. I’m also blessed that my parents are extremely gracious and sharing. A sifter here, a pitcher there, a small statue. I am reusing and restoring pieces that are often times just collecting dust — Granny Pinky’s black iron skillet notwithstanding.
My mother was an excellent seamstress and she sewed most of our clothes, as old black-and-white Easter photos (dresses, hats and gloves) can attest to. A few months ago I spied the wonderful comforter in a closet that Mama had hand-stitched in a fancy tulip design. It’s white-on-white with a lovely scalloped edge. It was made for a king size bed and they now have a queen-size bed. I asked Mom could I bring it home and she said yes. I placed it on my guest bed, complete with the matching shams and the exquisite heirloom dust ruffle that she once crocheted for me. It’s made of tobacco twine in the Southern pineapple motif. Is it just me, or do my guests now sleep better?
On a recent visit here, our oldest daughter Kelly asked me could she have a modern, colorful Bella Sera ceramic vase with the matching salt and pepper shakers that I’d stored. The black background is decorated with swirls of purple, red, turquoise and bright yellow and goes perfectly in her colorful kitchen. I love seeing it when we visit.
And soon, Katie, our youngest daughter, will be living here temporarily, after completing grad school at LSU. She’ll be setting up house somewhere, though we don’t know exactly where. It all depends on where she finds a position as a flutist with an orchestra or ensemble. But I’m already wondering what special item(s) she’ll want to take.
Perhaps the darling white drop-leaf table that she’s using at college now. I found it at a garage sale right after Russell and I were married. I only paid $10 for it (though I paid $40 to have the seven layers of paint stripped). There’s something special about it, and everyone who sees it says so.
All of this nostalgia, summed up for me, goes like this: From one home to another, mother to daughter, and so forth and so on, keeping the memories alive. It’s sort of “A Circle of Life Through Cherished Keepsakes.”
Ann M. Ipock, author of “Life Is Short, So Read This Fast!,” can be reached at www.annipock.com or amipock@ec.rr.com.
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